Tuesday, February 23, 2010

Seduced Into Idolatry

Came across this and loved the heart, loved the message and had to share!


Pete Wilson is one of the pastors at Cross Point Church. Cross Point is a seven year old church with three campuses - CP Nashville, CP Dickson, CP North. Their fourth campus CP Bellevue will launch this Spring.  

Check out more of his blog at   http://withoutwax.tv/ 


Seduced Into Idolatry - Pete Wilson   



I think most people get into ministry for the right reasons. Our motives are pure but over time we easily become seduced into playing games which feed ego.


■Power


■Performance


■Praise


■Perfectionism


All become these mini god’s which promise us increased satisfaction and purpose but leave us feeling unsatisfied and empty.


John Ortberg recently wrote a fantastic article for Christianity Today where he ended with the following questions. He labeled the series of questions the “Idol Quotient Test.” While this is geared toward people in ministry I think you can easily adapt each question to your current situation.


—Where does my sense of security come from—from God or from how my church is doing?


—After a worship service, do I find myself grateful that God is God and feeling joyful that I get to live in his care? Or, if I’m honest, are my emotions dictated more by how many bodies were in the room?


—Do I spend more time thinking about God, or thinking about how to make my church/ministry do better?


—How do I feel when the prospect for more prizes in the church tournament—recognition, praise, reputation, applause—get taken away from me?


—Does my sense of identity flow more out of my relationship with God or out of my performance at church?


—How much do I sacrifice to know God better versus how much do I sacrifice for my church to work better?






Oh dang! Idolatry has never been more clear.


Which question is most convicting to you?

Sunday, February 7, 2010

Turn The Switch On!


Yesterday, after a long "no nap" day for my girl, I found myself exhausted with our day at 5pm!   Ever have one of those days where every tantrum has been thrown,  every discipline given?   My kiddo's are awesome, and I'm sure just like you, there are some days where every line is crossed.  Just as we're teaching the kids about self control, quick & happy obedience, I too have the times of gentle reminder's to "turn my switch" on to obey with a happy heart! 

I was oh so drained! I found this blog just in time to remind me of my role as mom in teaching my kiddo's and directing them to God's heart!   Believe me,  it was a one of those days where I wanted to just give up and give in!

Being a mom is one of the greatest treasures and gifts of my life. It's also on some days, on of the most challenging adventures that I have ever been a part of.     For these opportunities, these moments,  this season,  these times of "directing" our children to God's heart - I am thankful!

Continuing to work on it all!

James 3:13-16 Message

13-16Do you want to be counted wise, to build a reputation for wisdom? Here's what you do: Live well, live wisely, live humbly. It's the way you live, not the way you talk, that counts. Mean-spirited ambition isn't wisdom. Boasting that you are wise isn't wisdom. Twisting the truth to make yourselves sound wise isn't wisdom. It's the furthest thing from wisdom—it's animal cunning, devilish conniving. Whenever you're trying to look better than others or get the better of others, things fall apart and everyone ends up at the others' throats.
 17-18Real wisdom, God's wisdom, begins with a holy life and is characterized by getting along with others. It is gentle and reasonable, overflowing with mercy and blessings, not hot one day and cold the next, not two-faced. You can develop a healthy, robust community that lives right with God and enjoy its results only if you do the hard work of getting along with each other, treating each other with dignity and honor. 


Helping Our Children Walk in Wisdom…Self Control - By Kelly Crawford - Generation Cedar

Mothering became a full time job I knew I had to devote my life to when I began to look at Scripture and understand my responsibility to impart spiritual wisdom to my children.  That it was more than crayons and protecting them from germs and making sure they ate enough carrots.  It was a dividing line between what others expect and what God requires.

This “imparting of wisdom” is not just a nice parenting term to toss around; it plays itself out day by day, hour by hour, in the details of life.  Someone is daily beside our children pointing them to wisdom or foolishness, teaching them in all things, whether right or wrong.  I believe that one should be father and mother.  And if father works outside the home, the mother or care giver is given the bulk of the task of daily training.

Anyone home all day with little ones (who understands the “imparting of wisdom”) knows the enormous time and mental energy it takes to raise children.  My sister-in-law and I discussed parenting issues the other day and I thought as we talked, “it’s no wonder motherhood–24-hour motherhood–is so unpopular….it’s hard!”   Do hard things.

These verses we read this morning are just one small area that spoke volumes to me about my responsibility to teach my children to walk in wisdom:
“Who is wise among you?  Let him shew out of a good conversation his works with meekness of wisdom….For where envying and strife is, there is confusion and every evil work….But the wisdom that is from above is first pure, then peaceable, gentle, willing to yield,  full of mercy and good fruits, without partiality, and without hypocrisy.  And the fruit of righteousness is sown in peace of them that make peace.”  James 3:13-18
Boy if that’s not chocked full of parenting!  After all, how does a person learn “good conversation” full of meekness and gentleness and willing to yield?  Because believe me, my children didn’t come that way.  I’m not wired that way.  It’s a daily seeking of life-changing wisdom by all of us!  Me from my Father, and my children from me.

The Lord has really been showing me lately the importance of our speech–the words we say, and especially how we say them. If you listen closely, children do what comes naturally…they use volume and intensity to get what they want. Sometimes they use threats and insults.  It’s a simple matter of a lack of self-control mingled with sinfulness.  As we point to the sin of it, God begins a work in their hearts.  In the mean time, we help them with habits that will meet that work.  

Self-control is not usually common to us; it is a trait that must be learned.  (And unfortunately, a very important trait that many never learn that later has devastating consequences in their lives.)  That one trait can take years!  And mothers, we are the primary catalyst for that transformation in our children.  Sorry, we just are, as heavy as that is.

Let’s get practical…
The earlier you can start working on self-control and its practical applications the better. Sometimes a 7 or 8 month-old infant can demonstrate anger during a diaper change and a gentle speaking to her will begin to train her to understand self-control.

Do you have a 1 or 2 year old that has begun his natural responses to not getting his way? Does he scream or hit when another child has something he wants?  Begin to replace his natural reaction with a wise one.   (And discipline him when it becomes defiance or disobedience to your instruction.) Show him the right response, the right words, the right behavior.  Tell him “No, don’t say….if you want that cup say….”

I’m trying to work with my 3-year old, specifically on her tone of voice.  Again, it’s quite natural to raise her voice when she’s frustrated (it’s natural for me ;-) ) but by stopping her when I catch it, and simply demonstrating a more controlled response helps her to train herself to display self-control.   And, beauty of motherhood, if I’m aware of my job to teach these traits to them, I must, myself, be given to exercising self-control and gentleness.

This one thing–responding to life with self-control–could it be the very foundation of pointing our children to joy and contentment in life?
“He who walks with the wise will become wise; but a companion of fools suffers harm.” Proverbs 13:20
Link to Generation Cedar:    
http://www.generationcedar.com/main/2010/01/helping-our-children-walk-in-wisdom-self-control.html   



Thursday, February 4, 2010

Our budding artists!



Today we finished school and then began having fun with our Art & Composers study we are doing during February.   Today we studied about Georges Seurat,  Pointillist methods and then attempted our own masterpieces!   (Pointillism is a technique of painting in which small distinct dots of colour create the impression of a wide selection of other colors and optical blending. - Wikipedia)
We painted "The Eiffel Tower" as originally painted by him in 1889.

We had fun but decided we like paintbrushes instead!  


Daniel was hard at work,  Eliana joined in on the fun with loads of laughs and "inspiration".    It was definitely great time!




 
 



Wednesday, February 3, 2010

Need A Safe Place?



Heard this song today on the radio and oh how it grabbed my heart!    

I think we've all been in places or seasons where you think your dreams are crumbling before your very eyes.  Maybe for some it's a tragic loss,  intense grief,  financial heaviness or reports of cancer showing up.   For most - we've may have experienced a little of it all at some point in time, or all in the same day!

Throughout my days, I've been the leper and He healed me.  I've been the prisoner and He freed me.   I've been the lame and broken, and He made me new, nothing lacking or missing.  I've had a dead heart and spirit - and He brought life.   He restored.  He healed.  He loved.    He is faithful.  He never leaves.  He never gives up on me!  

I'm seeing my dreams take place before my very eyes!   He doesn't forget what He promises!

Here's your hope.... You are safe in His arms!  

Take a listen at this song!   Love it!  
Click here to enjoy!
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ciW8r-5kCDY


Safe  - By Phil Wickam / Bart Millard

Verse:
To the one who's dreams are falling all apart
And all you're left with is a tired and broken heart
I can tell by your eyes you think your on your own
but you're not all alone

Have you heard of the One who can calm the raging seas
Give sight to the blind, pull the lame up to their feet
With a love so strong and never let you go
oh you're not alone

Chorus:
You will be safe in His arms
You will be safe in His arms
'Cause the hands that hold the world are holding your heart
This is the promise He made
He will be with You always
When everything is falling apart
You will be safe in His arms

Verse 2:
Did you know that the voice that brings the dead to life
Is the very same voice that calls you to rise
So hear Him now He's calling you home
You will never be alone

Bridge:
These are the hands that built the mountains
the hands that calm the seas
These are the arms that hold the heavens
they are holding you and me

These are hands that healed the leper
Pulled the lame up to their feet
These are the arms that were nailed to a cross
to break our chains and set us free

Tuesday, February 2, 2010

Eliana's Declaration To All!





As a mom of two amazingly lovable and high energy children, I have a day or two occasionally where I have to stop, take a few deep breaths and gain assurance from God that I am indeed a pretty cool mom.    I know all of us have those days where you feel like you are not feeling so "hot" or not measuring up to your expectations or comparisons to "the other cool mom's".   Today was one of those day, but Eliana has declared tonight (without prompting or me paying her a quarter)....

"Mom, you are the best mom in this city!".



There.   It's been decided.    February 2, 2010 - Let the record show,  "I am the best mom in this city!"


I can't argue with that.  I can't argue with her intense determination to shout it loud at her cheer-leading practice, in front of all of the other moms, her 13 member squad and other spectators.   I can't push aside her gleaming eye and sweet smile as she proudly returns to her "squad", as if she had just won the treasured prize. 

My heart is full today.   She didn't win,  I've won the prize!   Oh you see, it's not because I've received awards for books written or the best decorated home in the Parade of Homes or the lottery!

My heart is full!   I have the heart of my daughter!

I love that girl.  I love being her mom.  I love learning with her and from her.   I love her passion for life, her passion for laughter and her passion for making each day a "tickle party".   I love the way she challenges me.   I love her quick spirited mind.   I love her "tantrums" that I get to help bridle and direct, allowing the Holy Spirit to form her into the woman that God has called her to be.    I love watching her fall asleep after a long, fun, challenging day - taking moments to do "snuggle bugs", knowing that her dreams are beginning and developing, and one day will be real.    I love her curiosity and her enthusiasm for all she does.   I love that beneath the "tough girl" exterior, she's sensitive, faith filled and knows that God hears her prayers.   I love hearing her pray, even tonight "God I know you hear me. I want more snow. Please God bring me some more snow".   I'm loving celebrating every step, every season, every challenge, every milestone, every sweet song and every moment of correction with her.    God has some pretty cool things in store!  


Now it's my time to say.... "I've won!   I've won!   I've won!"

Tuesday, January 19, 2010

What If The Pharisees Twittered?

  

Disclaimer…some of these phrases MAY be over 140 characters, work with me!  :-)
  • “Heard this guy named Jesus teach today, not very impressed.  All He did was tell stories, didn’t really go in depth like the guys do at the tabernacle.”
  • “That Jesus guy healed a dude on the Sabbath right in front of everyone, which was so disrespectful.  Sure, it was nice that the person got healed, I just don’t agree with the way He went about it.”
  • “BIG DEAL!  So this Jesus guy fed over 5,000 men with five loaves and two pieces of fish.  Seems to me like He is just into trying to do entertaining things to get people’s attention rather than teaching them anything of substance.”
  • “The people that seem to be following Jesus and taking on some responsibilities for Him have not been to seminary…this is not acceptable!”
  • “This Jesus guy keeps talking TO and ABOUT ‘lost people.’  I think His singular focus is going to be destructive to His ministry.”
  • “This Jesus guy won’t answer any of our questions.  I think He is arrogant to not listen to us…doesn’t He understand who we are?”
  • “Jesus didn’t wash His hands before He ate a meal with me last night, I did, therefore I am so much cleaner than Him!”
  • “Jesus called me a snake/viper today, I am not quite sure that was appropriate language and I think that kind of talk is going to damage His reputation.”
  • “Jesus always calls me and my friends out for His perceived problems with us…and quite often isn’t very ‘loving’ in the way He does it.  I think He has temper issues and should stop being so reactive.”
  • “Jesus keeps hanging out with the wrong people…doesn’t He know that the people who are closest to Him don’t have their act together?”
  • “Jesus lost His temper today and threw things and people out of the temple.  His irreverence for the things that matter to me is quite disturbing.”
  • “This guy Jesus waters down His teachings, the way He is presenting things ANYONE can be forgiven!”
This blog was written by Pastor Perry Noble.   Cool stuff!
http://www.perrynoble.com/

Saturday, January 2, 2010

"The Table"




Hello Friends....


For those that have spent any time with me, you know the "Table" holds a special place in my heart.  Not just because it's where we've entertained many or have cleaned many  play dough messes.  To me, the table represents a place of great rest, intimacy, forgiveness,  restoration and friendship;  To those that live in my home daily and to those we extend invitation.  Over the last few years, I've learned and experienced personally the power of "The Table" and had to share these few blogs and insights.   There is something so powerful that happens in our hearts when we gather around a table for a simple cup of coffee or the grandest diplay of a buffet.    A few weeks ago Pastor Troy at Freedom House Church taught on "The Table" over several weeks.  What a display of God's covenant over us!   (Check out http://www.freedomhousechurch.org/ to hear the podcast!   It was awesome!)

Several years back, I first heard a life changing teaching on "The Table" principle and how as women we can extend the environment of grace to others in our home.  No matter the decor, size, demographic type... your home and your table can invite restoration, love and grace in people - all around your table.   There is a lot rooted in the blogs below and I know I'm not including all that's in my heart on this right now.   There's so much God desires to do in the lives of women and the influence we bring to "The Table" to influence others.


This has ingnited my heart once again to extend invitation to others around my table as I enjoy the grandeur and grace of My Fathers.    Be on the look out...you are invited to join me at "The Table"!

Love you all!      Come sit with me at my table and enjoy a cup of tea!

Nickie



Compiled By: Michelle Hoefflin     Additional Thoughts:  Nickie Haas

Recently, a pastor and friend blogged about a piece of furniture which in turn got me thinking once again about the importance of this piece of furniture that graces each of our homes......”The Table”. Whether yours is a grand dining room piece, a kitchen or morning room breakfast table, or for the newlyweds or college student a coffee table (until you can afford the one you want) the significance of “The Table” does not change.

Over the years I have come to realize, understand and receive multiple revelations about “The Table”. The Table has come to mean many things to me:



• As a decorator, I learned God was the first furniture designer. He was the one who gave the instructions for the design and construction of the Table (Exodus 25:23-30). He gave the Table significance and a place of honor in His house and presence.    (Added by Nickie - This table also represented where the show bread was placed, which represented the presence of The Holy Spirit.  No wonder there's such an intimacy with us from our God when we are seated at His table!  No wonder there can be restoration offered in relationships, and lives changed when others sit around our tables.  His presence is there!   Just as all of us have different decor likes and dislikes,  preferences that attract our personality,  things that draw us to be "at ease", comfortable and at peace, God knows this too and He draws us in with His Table, things that catch our hearts, our spirit man!)



“You shall also make a table of acacia wood; two cubits shall be its length, a cubit its width, and a cubit and a half its height. And you shall overlay it with pure gold, and make a molding of gold all around. You shall make for it a frame of a handbreadth all around, and you shall make a gold molding for the frame all around. And you shall make for it four rings of gold, and put the rings on the four corners that are at its four legs. The rings shall be close to the frame, as holders for the poles to bear the table. And you shall make the poles of acacia wood, and overlay them with gold, that the table may be carried with them. You shall make its dishes, its pans, its pitchers, and its bowls for pouring. You shall make them of pure gold. And you shall set the showbread on the table before Me always.” Exodus 25:23-30


• As a daughter of God, I have come to realize that he continually invites me to His Table, “As often as you do this....”, (Luke 22:14-20, l Corinthians 11:23-26) for communion with Him. This Table has been prepared and provided for through the greatest of sacrifice and there is a place setting at this Table with a place card that has my name on it.    (You always have a reservation ready!)



“When the hour had come, He sat down, and the twelve apostles with Him. Then He said to them, “With fervent desire I have desired to eat this Passover with you before I suffer; for I say to you, I will no longer eat of it until it is fulfilled in the kingdom of God.” Then He took the cup, and gave thanks, and said, “Take this and divide it among yourselves; for I say to you, I will not drink of the fruit of the vine until the kingdom of God comes.” And He took bread, gave thanks and broke it, and gave it to them, saying, “This is My body which is given for you; do this in remembrance of Me.” Likewise He also took the cup after supper, saying, “This cup is the new covenant in My blood, which is shed for you.” Luke 22:14-20



“For I received from the Lord that which I also delivered to you: that the Lord Jesus on the same night in which He was betrayed took bread; and when He had given thanks, He broke it and said, “Take, eat; this is My body which is broken for you; do this in remembrance of Me.” In the same manner He also took the cup after supper, saying, “This cup is the new covenant in My blood. this do, as often as you drink it, in remembrance of Me.” For as often as you eat this bread and drink this cup, you proclaim the Lord’s death till He comes.” I Corinthians 11:23-26



• As God’s Friend, I am invited daily to fellowship with Him. He knocks on the door of my heart (Revelation 3:20) making my heart a Table of fellowship with the Best Friend I could ever have or ask for.

“Behold, I stand at the door and knock. If anyone hears My voice and opens the door, I will come in to him and dine with him, and he with Me.” Revelation 3:20



• As a Wife, Mother, and Friend the table(s) that grace my home can be used as a place of communion, restoration, and fellowship with the ones that are dearest to me.      (Nickie - This is one of my favorite things to do in our family!   We love having everyone over, but also enjoy those quiet moments one on one with others.   There's intimacy and discussion that takes place here that in no way can occur in a restaurant!  It just doesn't work the same!)



• As a Minister, the Table represents a place of restoration. Mephibosheth’s (2 Samuel 9:1-13) life was redeemed and restored to a place of honor and covenant.    (Nickie - Mephibosheth,  David, Saul & Jonathan's story fill's me with a reminder of God's covenant over me!   I am thankful for the covenant love from my God!   He restores when I lack!   He redeem's when I'm weak!)


Now David said, “Is there still anyone who is left of the house of Saul, that I may show him kindness for Jonathan’s sake?” And there was a servant of the house of Saul whose name was Ziba. So when they had called him to David, the king said to him, “Are you Ziba?” He said, “At your service!” Then the king said, “Is there not still someone of the house of Saul, to whom I may show the kindness of God?” And Ziba said to the king, “There is still a son of Jonathan who is lame in his feet.” So the king said to him, “Where is he?” And Ziba said to the king, “Indeed he is in the house of Machir the son of Ammiel, in Lo Debar.” Then King David sent and brought him out of the house of Machir the son of Ammiel, from Lo Debar. Now when Mephibosheth the son of Jonathan, the son of Saul, had come to David, he fell on his face and prostrated himself. Then David said, “Mephibosheth?” And he answered, “Here is your servant!” So David said to him, “Do not fear, for I will surely show you kindness for Jonathan your father’s sake, and will restore to you all the land of Saul your grandfather; and you shall eat bread at my table continually.” Then he bowed himself, and said, “What is your servant, that you should look upon such a dead dog as I?” And the king called to Ziba, Saul’s servant, and said to him, “I have given to your master’s son all that belonged to Saul and to all his house. You therefore, and your sons and your servants, shall work the land for him, and you shall bring in the harvest, that your master’s son may have food to eat. But Mephibosheth your master’s son shall eat bread at my table always.” Now Ziba had fifteen sons and twenty servants. Then Ziba said to the king, “According to all that my lord the king has commanded his servant, so will your servant do.” “As for Mephibosheth,” said the king, “he shall eat at my table like one of the king’s sons.” Mephibosheth had a young son whose name was Micha. And all who dwelt in the house of Ziba were servants of Mephibosheth. So Mephibosheth dwelt in Jerusalem, for he ate continually at the king’s table. And he was lame in both his feet.” 2 Samuel 9:1-13




The Word, God Himself, sets the example of what the Table can be if used properly and with purpose. For this reason it is so important that we come to the Table....”As often as you do this Remember Me”. In remembrance of Him is where we will find restoration for the Mephibosheth’s in our lives, communion (which brings a host of blessing), and fellowship with God our Father and those that He brings into our lives.

The Table is a place of transformation.....Lives are changed at His Table and Yours! I ask you, have you come to His Table lately? Have you invited family or friends or new acquaintances to the Your Table lately?

Come to the Table.






Blog link

http://pennymaxwell.wordpress.com/2009/12/23/carried-to-the-table